In this week's episode, I interview Deborah Kat. Deborah is The Host of The Better Sex Podcast and The Better Sex for Couples Summit. As a Somatic Sexuality Coach, she works with both individuals and partners to enhance their sexual lives, and create relationships on their terms.
In this week’s episode we covered
✨How Deborah and her partner have created a relationship that’s true for them that fits outside of standard gender roles
✨How everyone has masculine/feminine energy and it depends on the person on how that’s represented
✨When dating why it’s important to check in about how you feel around the person - e.g. are you grounded in the present? Are you inspired to be in your heart? Do you feel open or contracted? Is this someone you feel safe to be in your creativity?
✨Why Chemistry is amateur and limiting when looking for a long term relationship
✨How many people have the story ‘If I don’t do it, it won’t get done’ and how that can impact relationships
✨How to negotiate differences in standards and priorities in a relationship
✨Deborah shares her work with poly couples and how they work through designing their relationship configuration
✨How to cultivate fairness in a relationship without things having to be tit for tat
✨Why resentment is the relationship killer
✨Why love languages are helpful for creating connection and harmony in a relationship
✨How to treat your relationship like a practice lab using conscious practices
✨The different ways of determining success in a relationship
More About Deborah:
In addition to the Podcast she works with clients, hosts private intensives as well as leads monthly classes exploring the edges of sexuality and spirit. She combines her diverse background in Tantra, massage, and BDSM to support men and couples in clearing shame to have satisfying relationships and masterful sex. She firmly believes in the transformational power of desire and looks forward to utilizing her knowledge and experience in support of deeper surrender into bliss for all.
Here is a link to The TurnedOn Membership: https://www.deborahkat.com/turnedon
And there is a discount for In Bed with Caoi listeners!
Follow Deborah Online:
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https://www.facebook.com/askdeborahtantrakat
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